TheRules

Dos and Do Nots

When it comes to meeting people that you don't already know, or more specifically women, there are certain rules you'll want to follow in order for conversations to go well. People are suspicious of strangers and women are hit on by guys all the time, whether directly or indirectly, especially the more attractive women. So here are some guidelines:

Dos

Rule 1 get out of the house. You can't meet anyone nor practice social skills if you don't, except phone game or arranging dates on dating apps which are saturated by fakes and scammers so is a major waste of time.

Rule 2 talk to everyone
But you'll find it's best not to talk to guys for too long if they are alone or a group of guys with no girls in, as you'll get stuck there. So try not to linger too long, go and talk to multiple groups of people so as not to get stuck in one group without women in. It's okay to talk to the guys if they are next to a group of girls, because you can use them as a sort of stepping stone, rather than going straight up to the girls and bypassing the guys, as this will make it obvious you wanted to talk to the girls. unless of course you're walking with a friend who carries on walking to the bathroom etc, while you ask their female opinion

Rule 3 1st impressions are as important as personal hygiene, so smile on the approach and dress to impress and you'll stand out from the rest.

Rule 4 Do make statements. You'll find people want to add to your statements in some way. 
Good statements to make are about unusual things you saw or that happened to you, followed by a statement about how you felt or an observation about what you saw. For instance, "I saw one of those little dogs and this lady was carrying it in her handbag with its tail wagging. Imagine how lazy we would be if we could be carried around all day and just make a noise when we wanted to be fed"
 
Rule 5 If you ask a question and she gives a good answer to it, reward her by either making another statement about what you think that means about her, for instance if you ask what her favourite alcohol is and she says I don't drink alcohol you could say "wow, you sound very disciplined", rather than just saying "cool" and asking another question.


Rule 6 Demonstrate value in some way, without bragging. For instance tell a story which involves you snowboarding rather than saying "I'm a great snowbiarder". 
There are 7 main valuable traits which women look for in a man. They are hard-wired into our nervous systems, you've heard of the fight or flight resoonse, right? It goes back to when we lived in tribes and caves. We needed tribes around so that we could be protected from wild animals at night or other tribes who might want our land etc. A woman looks for someone who can protect her, has been vetted by or has other women in his life as friends and shows emotions, which is what a smile in the first approach is important, both of those prove he is safe to talk to. They look for a leader, even if it just means he's a school teacher, he is a successful risk taker, as she wants someone who can stand up for himself and her against injustice and doesn't let people take advantage of him, for instance  
So those are goid things to demobstrate in person especially, or to talk about in stories about yourself. 
So that gives you things to talk about and to think about memories you have from your own life of those things, and of how to potray those things in stories you can tell from your life. It may take a lot of work or trial and error to not only come up with a good story, but to practice telling a story in order to develip in into a good one if you're not used to it. Let me know if you want tips on this. 
 

Do Nots
Be careful not to do the following: 
Do not...  

...Neglect the rest of your life, keeping fit, healthy and on purpose is as important to your game as is actually talking to women you're attracted to.

...Talk about vulgar or negative topics: Some people may find it funny to joke about "toilet humour" or tell stories of the time you and your friend got so drunk you fell asleep in a pile of dog turd, or make fun of other people in a bad way, but such stories just make tge person telling them look bad and make them someone to avoid talking to unless you want stories to tell others of how sad the story teller is. So avoid that sort of conversation at all costs. Also religion and politics are consistently bad topics

...Just talk to beautiful women: Learning to hold a conversation with anyone is a great skill that will not only propel you in your personal life, but your career and family life too, as social intelligence is a major indicator of successful people. If you only talk to beautiful women you'll look like a sexual predator, whereas if you talk to everyone, you'll look like a fun, friendly, sociable guy.

...Show that you are attracted to a woman until she has shown interest in you. If you walk up to a woman and show you are attracted, for instance by singling her out of a crowded room, meaning you went straight up to her without talking to anyine else first, then she'll more than likely try to get rid of you, because you have shown attraction to her before knowing anything about her. Attraction is supposed to be built up as you get to know her, that way it is genuine and personal, rather than just being attracted to a woman based on her looks. There are many beautiful women, she wants to know she has won you over, not that you are just attracted to every beautiful woman you see and will be bouncing from one woman to the next like a ping pong ball. Also you're not only putting all of the power into her hands, but also she is forced to make a decision about you there and then, on the spot, and will therefore only judge you by your appearance, because of the same reason.

...Try to impress her or brag. This is a sure way to show her you are attracted already, which should be avoided. She'll want to know more about you and will ask about you when the time comes.

...Talk sexually to her or talk about sexual topics. Doing this just makes you look like the creepy guy, a horn dog who only thinks about sex and is just looking for a quick shag. It makes you look like a low value guy. Avoid such topics and behaviour. 

...Be attached to the outcome. Don't get upset if a woman is rude, unsociable or ignores you, just remember everyone has their own "crap" in life. You don't know if her mum just died or uf yiu're the 99th guy she doesn't know to approach her today. So just say "pleasure meeting you", gracefully leave and go and talk to someone else who is hopefully more friendly. 

...Ask boring questions, like what's your name, where are you from, what do you do, what drink is that? etc. Either save questions like this for after a woman has shown interest in you, or make the questions more interesting ones that she'll enjoy answering or that you're more interested in.


....Ask too many questions. You don't want this to feel like an interrogation for her, so try not to ask one question after another. Mix it up by making a statement about her answer before asking another questiin, then if she has no comment about your statement, feel free to ask another question afterwards or tell a story about something you saw, as already stated.

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